Why..

My 10 years friend is getting married in 3 months time. I was not surprised to hear the news for I know she have been in a serious relationship with her guy for almost 5 years but when I heard that she's not marrying that guy, I was really taken back..Alot.

They seemed to be a loving couple, they completed each other. Whenever he went she'll follows and vice versa. They are inseparable but now..

Actually this is not a new thing for me. A lot of happy couples that I know when through the same situation, including, me. They fall in love, plan for the future and unexpectedly broke up. It's sort of inevitable. Not that we wish our love would go away..but it happened. Shits happen..All the time.

I discuss this topic with my bf. These were what we manage to conclude. After a while rowing in a relationship, couples will tend to get too comfortable with each other. This is when they will show their true color and of course no matter how ugly the truth was both parties will accept their other half weakness for the love was already bloom and nothing else matter. This is when it happens. After knowing that NOTHING will jeopardize the love, lovers will slowly neglect their other half within their awareness or not. No more late nite-long phone calls. No more surprise presents. No more tender, unexpected kisses. Just some routines. Going out, most likely watch a movie, have a meal and head back home. And without realizing it the blazing fire will diminish, at a snail's pace. Seeing each other is not that enjoyable anymore. No more butterfly feeling in the stomach, no more heart thumping. .and finally..no more love.

Everything that is alive in this world needs some kind of cycle. Caterpillars transform into butterflies and babies will grow up to be adults. If u are in a long relationship, there's no evolution at all. Naught. No new things..just the same old things and..it's mundane to stuck in a phase where u dunno what what is going to happen. It's like being stuck in a tunnel and u keep walking not knowing where is the end. Exhausting and lackluster.

Those are only 2 reasons. Actually there are more. So the best solution is.. If u have the money and u really love your partner. Say the magic words before u lost that special someone. Dun wait any longer..because sometimes love just won't wait on u.