Someone for everyone

Was having mamak session [the fact that I don't eat mamak but my friends do] and had our mourning and serious talk about life as usual. No, this is not teteks who I am talking about. They err..err never really have serious talking session in public.


So we went to scrutinise our achievement in life so far which ehe were not that great actually. I mean, we are 26 yet still working makan gaji and err..err in a mediocre position and single. While people around us had move on dengan jayanya sekali.



This is when Ikhwan said how he could not believe some of his friend already got hitched padahal dia adalah lagi hemsem [statement ni aku yang tambah, tapi aku taula ikhwan kalau baca dia suke.haha]. How come other people deserve to be with someone and not us? Padahal orang lain tu bukannya best sangat pon.haha


Then I thought of few couples who at the first glance tidaklah mempunyai err..pakej yang menarik but ended happily married. I know this is a horrid statement but somehow that was what we discussed the other day.


Kadang-kadang memang betul, at certain time when a couple passed by you will give some remarks such as

1. How come the hunk is holding hands with the old lady? Takde perempaun muda lagi ke?




2. Eh, boifren kacak dia tapi kenapa gefren dia gemuk?




3. The young lady who was holding hands with the old guy mesti is after his money.




4. Oh my, what the hell is that foxy doing with that guy? Apsal aku yang hemsem ni tak dapat?
   

Hmm. Kenapa ye?


To me, maybe these people even how odd they look, they deserve each other. For example for question no 1, put aside material factor [taikla kalau kau cakap kau tak going towards materialism] maybe the guy find older women are easier to handle dari younger girls who are still daze in their getik style and can't be able to control their anger leave alone jealousy. And the women, finds the guy comforting coz being with a young guy makes her feel young at heart. Adakah salah untuk berasa muda? Asalkan jangan seperti macik macik berdansa di club cukupla.


So what is so keji seeing them together?


And no 4. What the hell is the foxy doing with that guy? First of all, what makes you think you stand more chance than the guy. Adakah kerana rupa kau yang melebihi dia? Now tell me, with your look, could you give her happiness and security? Could you cope out with her flocking by admirers and tell me, kalau orang tu tak hemsem, meaning he doesn't deserve a hot chicas kah?
Maybe, despite not having the package, he is the sweetest and heart melter alive. And by being with him, her life seemed to be complete. And for him, perhaps he saw beyond the beauty, something else which were transparent to others but not to him. Then again, takkan tak best kalau ade partner lawa?


So what is so keji seeing them together.


I personally feel, no matter how you look and how much you earn, there will be somene for everyone.


Kalau perangai kau macam lanch, heh macam lanchla jugak pasangan kau or maybe not. Like kalau kau rasa ade satu perempaun tu perangai macam setan and wish she ended up with another setan, heee think again. She might be not. Entah-entah kauu yang end up dengan setan kot. Hehe


Oh no. What am I talking about ini?


Oh ok, so when you walked and saw an odd couple, try to look at them in different ways. And somehow, you will feel ok to be single. Because the person who truly fits you and understand you, is still on his/her way...


To complete you.