Wednesday, July 05, 2006

Average Joe

I like to have intellectual discussion [haha] with friends over air suam or strawberry milk at mamak. Ehe, yes it's true that I don't like mamak but kalau nak minum-minum aje takpelah.Kalau nak suruh aku makan kari mamak dengan their hairy hand membuat roti, tak dapatlah bang.


So they other day, I went melepak with a friend and discuss the topic of being an average joe. It sucks to be average, that's what my friend said. In his situation, he is granted with good look but according to him not good enough to be a model or at least gigolo. Aku tak tau apsal cita-cita dia macam ni tapi ye, sebagai seorang kawan yang supportive, aku sokong dia ok. Haha.Keji. Anyway, with his value, looks and everything he also set some standard for himself. I mean, he wanted a hot chicas because yelah sape tak nak hot chicas but wanting a hot chicas meaning you have to have money. Extra money. Like I saidlah, nowadays,takde lelaki yang tanak perempuan cun tapi takde perempuan cun yang tanak duit. And he is doing ok in his work .Ok but not as what he expected which makes him an average guy. Nowadays to be outstanding you must have something outstanding. Either good looks, money, power or good career. Extra good [ade ke such word?]


But then I told him, being superstar is also not a piece of cake. For example Ronaldinho. He is well knownlah kan in the arena of football but seela what happen to him during this world cup. He doesn't shine as the way he is expected to be. Why? I dunno, maybe because of pressure or because every bloody single coach of each country dah study pergerakan dia kaw-kaw and suruh budak budak bola[sesedap aku jekan bagi nama bebudak bola] mark dia or something like that. Ko ingat dia tak pressure? Komfem balik Brasil kene kutuk punye. Lainla macam budak gemmmm Ronaldo, atleast dia sempatla jugak prove some point. Itu pun puasla kene kutuk.


He then said, it's ok to be average but at least you should have a good feeling about being average. I mean at least you are ok with it. I understood his point, it's like kalau kau dah sah sah sengal dari dulu takpe ni tak. Dulu your life is way more better than now and when under current circumstances you tend to compare or maybe you are ambitious but yet to achieve your ambition.


Anyway, my perception is..he is still doing ok sebabnya ialah he acted as the way his condition is. Not like certain people, average sebenanye but hey, mahu memetik bintang di langit pula. Claim diri superstar but when it comes to the part of proving the point, gagal. For example dalam cerita buli, you remember Roy which was being acted by heart throbbing Hans Isaac? Dia sebenanya sepatah mende tak reti tapi cerita lebey, at last kantoi jugak. Its better to be like siapa tu..Nordin yang power tapi tak self proclaim. Unless you know you could perform then ahah lain crite.


Anyway to my dude, you don't have to worry sebab at least you know you are not below average. Kau masih dikategorikan dalam golongan orang-orangnya hensem dan bermasa depan. I mean, you don't have all the poyo talking and you are not a himbo and your personality is interesting. Takdela sengal kalau nak bercakap dengan orang.

Kalau kau sengal jugak, kau tau sape nak call.Hehe.


Tiba-tiba aku rasa macam keluar topik tapi takpe..have a nice day!

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