Lelaki sengal

After watching a discomfiture session of AF when Idayu one of the powerful voices got voted out, my brain cells nearly went berserk of boredom until ikhwan buzzed me up for a drink.


We talked about what else, relationship questions. He enlightened me about a category of guy who loves playing hero. As if hero part in the movie.


This breed of guy represent them self as the cool guy. Nonchalant and unflappable. They bring themselves in the most minimal way but their presence gives a big waves. When involving relationship, they will tend to give the least they could and would gleefully accept minimal treatment in return. To them, pursuing for women is a waste of time, instead.. women will come eating at the palm of their hands. To me, I categorized them as 'lelaki sengal'


No, they don't degraded women, it just that they won't squander too much effort either. Vocabularies such as arjuna, pencinta agung or romeo does not exist in their dictionary. If you are looking for these kinds of terminology you stumbled upon the wrong guy. Attention whores and needy bitches [namely chics] will usually face tribulations dealing with their so-called-composure attitude. Equipped your mind with the thought that they will never come up with surprises that will melt your heart or perhaps do things beyond your expectations for to them, loving you by calling twice a day and see you during weekends are good enough. Also, football and you, are in the same league, so save all the bickering to your self.


It's not that they don't love their significant others, like Ikhwan said [ok, he admitted that he's one of them. Ha!] , they do. They really really do but they prefer to save their affection to themselves which some women might find it somewhat frustfurating. I did ask him whether he really loves his girlfriend. He said it's beyond words. The most unbelievable thing, despite the laid-back attitude, this breed would be torn into pieces when their relationship goes down the drain. And it will take them forever to get over it. They might seem like they don't care but for all intents and purposes they do. Conceivably they have their own distinctive way to illustrate it. How? I wish I know.


Heartaches and the loveless feelings may be your best cohort if you happened to be with this type of guy but hey, smile a little bit because one thing for sure, their attitude will never go beyond their usual par [what can go worst when you are already in the pits?] and they hardly go ashtray . The slightest gestures could evenly make they feel at ease for the whole day. With a little education from your side, improvement is coming along the way. See, you can save all your effort for that marathon session in shopping malls. *grin*


Ikhwan, I know you are trying your best to cheer me up but being a menggelupur girl, I still think you and ag need do something unexpected or else you'll be seeing me often after your girlfriend go merajuking. Hehehe..