This post is especially meant for guys. Do you ever wonder why is it so hard to please a woman?Do you sometimes feels like strangling your girlfriend to death?
Ok..see if i can help.Hmm..what actually we want from a guy?
Affection
Affection means we love to have physical contacs like cuddling, holding hands and manja-manja[no,no..it's not sex..yet].Sometimes man think that talking alone is enough.Well, talking is good but talking with displaying affection is much better.And sometimes it bother us when man only showing their affection when they want to get laid, to have sex. I mean kamonla wey, mase lain tak nak la hug, kiss seme ye?I know that guy are created to be like..guys[duh, i mean macho and tak manja] but on loving a manja creature, why not try to manja-manja youself..You'll be suprise on the outcome.
Talking and Listening
Naturally, woman loves to talk.. a lot.We would much appreciate if man can listen to our talking and talk back instead of giving "ooohh", "ye ke", "ahhh" as answers.You know, when we talk and men listen, it mean a lot to us really..especially when men take notes on what we are talking. Takdela bila aku cakap pasal topik tu lain kali kau clueless.Membuat kan aku confius dan takut as if aku telah bercerita kepada lelaki lain.kalau cakap secara lembut, manja and penuh kasih sayang akan lebih mengujakan. And yeah, a man who catch up with gossips is a bonus.
Attention
This one..I think both man and woman wants attention.It's like, when you go out with us, can you please not puji other girls or look at other girls as if they have three tits?[this one does not apply to me sbb aku pon suke tgk pompuan].I know you are busy with works, football, study or whatsoever but when you are with us..spare your time a bit so we will feel loved.Kadang-kadang pompuan akan berasa jeles tak tentu pasal even terhadap kerja or kucing if we don't have enough attention.
Time
Regardless how busy you are, please find some time for us.Please!!
Compliments
It wouldn't hurt to give compliments even I know it's not a man's nature.Compliments boost self esteem for woman.And we like to be told that we are worthy and beautiful.So now you know why we always fish for compliments.Hehehehe..
Suprises
Suprises are good. Do something to suprise your partner like cooking her fav dinner, took her out to some places she never been or give her unexpected gift [no, it's not handcuffs].
Good Sex
Noted I put good.Which means..lots of talking, cuddling and showing affection. For some woman, orgasm is not the main thing, it's the whole procedure that counts.Yeah, it's exactly the other way around with man.
That are some of the things that I can think of. Do you woman out there want to add anything?
It wouldn't be fair kalau cakap pasal what a woman wants jer kan..Nanti cakap aku male bashingla..feministla..tak acila..apela..So any hollar from man?
Wednesday, April 06, 2005
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