Look up to the star

Was having YM conference with my STF sisters on last fridays and bena said something that generated my mind to think.


Bena:Aku always look up to guys yang menjaga semayang and apa yang dia makan.
Me:Hehe..Aku tibai je..asal best..boleh je dengan aku.


Tibai aje?Betul ke?.Dun think so..So, I've been thinking after that.. What are the criteria of a guy that I look up to?


Well, here it goes..


A guy who feels affection for his family more than anything would beyond doubt, melt my heart. Loves here does not mean to concur to everything without good judgment but loving his family means he have respects for his parents, loves his sibling and not afraid to show that he care. I don't mind having a mama's boy for a boyfriend but he has to stand for what he wants and what he believes. Why not? There's nothing wrong to be close to your mum even you are already 35 years old. And a man like that..Can easily make through my heart.


Hypocrite is a big no no. I don't opt for guys who pretend to be cool and act macho. Nak cakap tepon control, nak jalan control...ceh! I prefer those who are not afraid to show their true colours. I mean, he can laugh, swore and do any other soul would do [even kentut pon, ok]. It's like..just be himself when hes with me. He doesn't need to electrify me by being someone he's not. I'm not looking for Mr. Perfect but I'm looking for someone who I can feel comfy with.


Even though I am a bit err.. outrageous but I do look high to guys who knew where did they came from..as in still have faith in God. The one who still prays [even once in a while], who does not mock religions and yeah.. doesn't denies the fact that there is a creator for all of us. I mean, I know that I'm not the right person to preach about these things but look..who doesn't want to improve for the better?


A guy who has some issues against animal, not to mention cats automatically will not be on my list. Memang komfela gagal. I really..really hate people who treat animals badly. I wish these people [whether u are a man or woman] will suffer for the whole of their life. But when a man does..it makes the whole story different. You know, the sight of a guy cuddling a cat or a guy walking his dog will simply make me go "awww..he's so sweet..is he taken?". Simply irresistible.


Finally, I look up to a man who equipped himself with education. It doesn't matter if he don't have much money [Note that I stated: much] as long as his education level is at least as the same level as mine..It should be all right. I dated a guy [once] with education-less background once , it was difficult..I tell you. Ape bende die cakap pon aku tak tau..Bende yang aku cakap lansungla die tak paham. Makes you feel like an idiot at the same time .Tak best lansung ok...Harap duit je banyak, aku cite pasal CPU dia ingat aku cite pasal nenek aku masuk hospital. CPU la wey..bukan ICU! Bende basic pon dah fail..camne?
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Kirenye macam tulah..
So korang taula kenapa aku suke ag..hehe[ye aku tau lari dari topic tapi sukati akulakan..]